I think you should seriously use your brain and think before you fucking speak.
Being independent at this age, working and supporting themselves, paying their own bills is something that these people should brag about.
They don't spend their parents' money, fancy asking for money to get things or to have fun outside.
Shouldn't you be fucking ashamed?
It's not about whether or not their parents got the financial ability to support their children,
it's about the child, who knows how to think for his/her family and himself/herself.