Dear diary,
Sometimes I ponders how wonderful would life be without worries of failing, without anger from fights and quarrels, without fear of losing and lastly without frights of not being in the part of living happily ever after.
Without jealousy, there wouldn't be words like scheming-ness/cunning. Most importantly, you don't bring
in hatreds and hurts. The people you hurt are not only the ones you're confronting, but you yourself too.
However the most irony thing about humans is that Everyone understands the concepts and morals of life, the only difference lies in knowing and doing it. I may be typing these chunks of words that makes losta senses out of it, but to be frank. I can't promise that I can control my anger and think logically and positively either. This, is the nature of all human beings. We all have feelings, we can feel hurt/happy/intimated/angry and all sorts of feelings. Who doesn't? Even animals too.
But, you have to tell yourself and remind yourself this for umpteen times whenever, wherever you are.
Before you flare up, think. Just THINK. Are you sure that you've done nothing wrong? Are you Sure that you're not at fault at all? Or, are you the one who started all these trashes? If yes, shouldn't you be thinking of ways to mend back and not blaming the others? One never hates another without a reason, and one never have thoughts of having revenge when the other party has done nothing bad either. Everything happens for a reason. IF you've not done anything wrong, calm yourself down and talk peacefully. Revenges does no good, whats the point of plotting all those under-hand methods when you yourself know that after all these wars, you wouldn't feel much better. Because in the process of winning, you've hurt so many people that everything's out of your control. Ending up, being alone and hated by everyone.
Once, someone told me this," 没有人是一座孤岛,每个人都需要朋友. " "No man is an island, everyone needs a friend" It's always better to have more friends than enemies, right? So, why not let us all change for the better,smile more and think positively! Happiness and good things will approach you eventually ~ ♥
